It is definitely safe to say that our dream is not “the dream” that everyone shares. In fact, I feel every muscle of my body tense up when people project dreams on other people by claiming they are living “the” dream. For the longest time, the search for “the” dream that Ryan and I thought we were suppose to live lead us down a path that ultimately our hearts were not that excited about! Don’t listen to other people’s projections. Just listen to your heart.